A New & Improved Morning Routine

Only two short years ago, I had a morning routine that began at 5:30 am on the dot and ended with me picking up Dunkin Donuts coffee on my way to the office. Now that I work from home, my process for getting ready has changed dramatically. But I’m not complaining.

My day begins at 6 am. The alarm blasts in my ear, and I feel around my nightstand for my phone to hit snooze. I fall back to sleep. I repeat this cycle at least twice before I get up to let the dog out.

Once the dog does her business, she takes her treat and goes back upstairs to her dog bed. I guess the steps and backyard is tiring enough to warrant another nap. Lucky dog! On the other hand, I grab my favorite coffee mug and have a bowl of cereal.

Around this time, I scroll through my Facebook page. I know (I know!) all of the productivity articles say not to do this, but some habits are hard to break. And anyway, some of those same articles think I can get my email inbox to zero every day. 😉

After breakfast, I settle onto the couch with my yellow notepad and pen and write out what I want to accomplish that day. I also take a few minutes to jot down blog post ideas. I’ll start writing out the blog itself if I have time, but most mornings, I have to put it off until later.

Usually, I try not to let anything come between me and my writing time, but then the best part of my day happens, and I put down my pen. My son, Andrew, comes downstairs to make his breakfast and lunch. Like me, he is a morning person and a bit of a talker. I love our brief conversations, even if they are only to talk about his scout meeting or swim practice. The fact that my 18-year-old son still likes to check in with me and tell me about his day is something I’ll never take for granted.

When he leaves for school, he yells out, “Love you, mom!” Then I start my day with my heart full and in a good mood.

From there, the rest of my day begins. I loathe doing my hair, but I recently splurged on a Hot Tools hair dryer/brush, which is the best thing EVER! It’s easy to use and my hair almost always comes out looking good. At least it does in the front. No one ever sees the back because I’m on Zoom calls all day long. As a bonus, I get a bit of an arm workout because that thing is hefty!

I take the much faster commute down two short flights of stairs to my home office. I turn on the computer and smile because I know that between the coffee, the writing, and the daily kitchen chat, it has already been a great day.

 

The Best of Book Clubs

to be read pileEver since I can remember, reading books has been as essential as breathing. I am rarely without a book or a magazine in my hand. At the hairdresser, I’ll listen to an audiobook while waiting the 25 minutes at the color station. I’ve also been known to read while standing in a checkout line at the grocery store, completely unaware that the line has moved forward because I am so engrossed in a story.

Those who aren’t big readers can’t seem to relate to this. Reading feels chore to them instead of a constant source of entertainment. Or maybe they were forced to read one awful book in high school and decided that the written word wasn’t for them. I don’t fault them for this. I only hope they will someday discover the joy and inspiration found between the pages of a book.

In my case, the only thing better than reading a book is talking about it. I love in-depth discussions about overall themes, characters, and plots. I want to marvel over the author’s writing style, talk through the twists and turns, and celebrate (or critique) how it all ends.

This is why my neighborhood book club has been one of the highlights of my suburban life. Every month or so, we choose a book to read and discuss. We had been meeting for many years in person before the pandemic hit. To keep our momentum (and sanity) in check, we met over Zoom. While it wasn’t the same as sitting in someone’s living room, it provided that much-needed connection we were all missing.

At times, we don’t always talk about the book. We love to drink wine and catch each other up on what is happening in our lives. We are also an incredibly resourceful bunch. If someone wants to redesign their kitchen, we recommend contractors, appliance and tile stores, and the best place to find high-quality light fixtures. When we were all planning b’nai mitzvahs for our kids, we traded the names of DJs and caterers.

There was a time when I said I wanted to talk more about the books we read when we met. At one particular meeting, we tried to lay down some ground rules. For instance, if you read the book, come at 7 pm to discuss it. Come over at 8 for cookies, cocktails, and chit-chat if you didn’t.

This turned out to be a lonely time for me. 😉

Soon enough, I weighed my need for intellectual conversation and my even stronger desire for a close-knit friend group. Of course, the friends won out. To this day, I consider these people some of my dearest friends. And besides, good books are much easier to find than good friends.

These days, our book club is the perfect mix of literary discussion and Mom’s Night Out. And, I love every minute of it. Whether we talk about what we loved or hated about the book or indulge in some neighborhood gossip, we all love a good story.

Life According to Chloe

“Do you want to go outside?”

I ask Chloe this question several times a day. Most of the time, she takes me up on it. I can tell because her ears and eyebrows perk up at my voice. I love the little shuffle dance she performs in front of me because she can’t contain her excitement. We are going outside!

It is so cute until it is time to put her leash on, and then she runs around like a toddler who doesn’t want to put her shoes on first.

We head out the door and to the right. We always go right, never left. She knows if we turn left, it will be a much shorter walk. Poodles are smart dogs. She loves to stop at her favorite spots – the next-door neighbor’s lawn, the brown mailbox, the little bush about halfway down the street, and another mailbox two doors down with the pretty flowers. When we get to the corner, she sniffs around the unscented telephone pole with curiosity and waits for me to give her the next direction.

Across?!

She wags her tail as if I told her we were going to the dog park. This is the best part of the walk. She loves crossing the street. She knows that is where we visit her favorite big rock, the yellow fire hydrant, and the best lawn in the neighborhood where all the dogs mark their territory.

When we finally go back inside, she isn’t done with me yet. It’s treat time! She runs straight for the entry to the kitchen and patiently waits for her reward for being such a good girl.

Sometimes, I have to skip this part because I am late for a Zoom meeting – like I had to do today. This is when things tend to get ugly. Chloe has no problem following me around the house and staring me down.

She sits to the side of my desk and barks as if to say, “did you forget something? Hmm?”

If I ignore her in favor of my meeting – with my boss, mind you – she doesn’t care. She will wait. She will wait all day if she has to until Chloe gets what Chloe wants.

It’s adorable. I give her the treat, and then we go through the whole routine again in a few hours.

 

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