There’s Always Next Weekend

A year from now, you will wish you had started today.”

– Author and journalist, Karen Lamb

I don’t know who Karen Lamb is, but she is absolutely right. A year from now, I will have wished I started on my book and gone to the gym. If I started this time last year, I would be well on my way to a first draft and a bikini body by now. But alas, that didn’t happen.

Seriously, what the hell am I waiting for?! I had plenty of time this weekend to take an exercise class or do a little research. Not that I was sitting around doing nothing.

Hey, here’s something. I cleaned out my kitchen pantry today. I felt productive, and the pantry looks so neat and organized. But I know it’s an exercise in futility because I can almost guarantee the cereal boxes will be wide open again next weekend with stale Cheerios inside.

And, did a few loads of laundry, so we all have underwear this week.

Cool.

(Cue the eye roll)

You guys, weekends are supposed to be relaxing and maybe even fulfilling. I did chores on the weekend when I was a teenager. Why am I still doing them now? I have teenagers of my own for G-d sake. It’s their turn!

Ok, time to get motivated. So, I’ll end with this quote from another author–who I also never heard of before ?

Life takes on meaning when you become motivated, set goals, and charge after them in an unstoppable manner.
     – Les Brown

 

Reading While Driving

Does this blog title scare you a little? 🙂

Don’t worry. I promise I have both hands on the wheel at all times. This is how it’s done.

I am someone who gets bored quickly on car rides—even when I’m driving. While some people love to drive, I’d much rather be in the passenger seat reading my book. And lucky for me, I rarely get carsick.

With a 45-minute commute to work every day, it kills me that there is nothing else I can do except drive. Yes, I have XM Radio, and I love to listen to cable news, the Blend, and the Billy Joel channel, but I wouldn’t exactly call that productive, which is why I’m so happy to have discovered Audible.

Yes, I know I’m late to the game here. Audible has been around for a few years. Now that I know about it, it has changed my commute for the better. And I admit that I used to think listening to a book doesn’t count as reading it. For those who listen to books on tape, Audible, or another listening app, please don’t hate me. I already hate myself for thinking that, but I can be pretty “old school” at times.

I still love holding a book in my hand and the physical act of turning the pages. I miss turning the book on its side to see how many pages I have left to go.  But, I can’t do any of these things while driving a car. And when you spend eight or nine hours listening to a book being read to you, it most definitely counts as reading.

My introduction to Audible started with a lecture I went to about launching myself into a new job. The speaker was recommending books and said that “The 5 Second Rule” by Mel Robbins was a must-read.

I was about to download the book on my Kindle as I usually do, but then someone else in the room suggested it is much better to listen to it. She said it was like listening to the best 300-page TED talk. So, I downloaded Audible and listened to it every day on my way to work.

First of all, the book is fantastic, and except for the chapter about using her method to overcome depression and anxiety, I highly recommend it to all of you. Second, listening to Mel Robbins narrate the book is quite an experience. She is that special combination of your BFF who happens to be a therapist, best-selling author and motivational speaker—all for the low price of $14.99. I finished the book in 10 business days.

The next book I chose to listen to was Brene Brown’s “The Gifts of Imperfection.” This is another one of those self-help, “you can do it” books. I was already familiar with how great her TED talks are., so I thought this would be just as good. But, within 15 minutes, I exchanged it. Unfortunately, this book was not narrated by Ms. Brown. It was read by someone else who had a monotone voice that I could have easily fallen asleep at the wheel. There was no way I was going to be inspired by her, and I didn’t want to risk an accident on the highway by dozing off.

Audible allows you to exchange a book for whatever reason. It is easy, and within 5 minutes, I had a new one ready to play. This time, I chose a new fiction novel called “Such a Fun Age” by Kiley Reid. I’d heard a lot about it, but I didn’t want to buy the hardback. And since I had two other books I was working through – one on my Kindle and one I can turn the pages, one more book to listen sounded worthwhile.

OMG, you guys. The narrator is for this book is amazing! There are so many characters that she must perform. I’m guessing she is some kind of actress. I literally cannot put this book down! Or do I say, turn this book off? I listen to it on my commute, on the way to the dog park, and in the kitchen while making dinner. It’s that good, and now I know that who the narrator is matters immensely.

What books do you listen to? Does it seem like you are reading the book, or does it feel like cheating?

 

Life Behind The Blog

This is my favorite mug. It says Instant Writer: Just Add Coffee. When I saw it, I laughed out loud. Oh Lord, if only it were that easy!

But it’s not. I love to write, but after nine straight days, I didn’t think I had much left in me to share with you.

Nevertheless, I was determined. I sat down at my laptop on the kitchen counter at 7:45 pm and looked over at the sink full of dishes. Instead of walking over and grabbing a sponge, I banged this out on my keyboard.

I’d like to have a word with the person that designated dishes and laundry as “women’s work.” Is it just because women care more about a clean house? Is it because the menfolk barely notice a pile of clothes to be folded or a sink full of dishes to be washed? And what about the children? Once they are tall enough to reach the sink, shouldn’t it be a law passed by Congress that they do their own #&!(@ dishes? 

AND THEN, I looked up at the TV and watched Ken Jennings risk all his points on a question about South Carolina’s political history. It was a bold move — a true daily double in the tournament to end all tournaments. I was on the edge of my seat.

Here’s what I typed:

You know, it’s so hard to write a blog post while watching Jeopardy’s Greatest of All Time Tournament. I’m rooting for Ken Jennings. Is anyone else watching this?

And THEN, I completely lost my motivation for writing/ranting about dishes and laundry. I was desperate for inspiration, and I did the only thing I could do. I cringed and then went on Facebook.

Sure enough, one of my friends posted a list of quick facts about her and her husband. You know–the location of our first date, who said I love you first, etc. I started to fill in all of the slots, and then planned on calling it a night.

And THEN, inspiration finally hit me. This list of who is the better driver (him) and who is more of a morning person (me), reminded me of the podcast I listened to while driving into work: Gretchen Rubin and her 20 for 2020 list. It took me the better part of an hour to put together my own list.

I hit publish at exactly 10:02 pm and breathed a sigh of relief. Honestly, I’m proud of the post and the fact that I didn’t give up. I sat there until something came to me–and I didn’t even have to take a drink my coffee mug.

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