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Got Soup?

multiple cans of tomato soup on the kitchen counter. Over the weekend, I cleaned out my pantry and discovered I had ten cans of tomato soup in there.

TEN!

Who needs ten cans of tomato soup? Apparently, I do. Here are my reasons why.

First of all, I love to make grilled cheese sandwiches for lunch on a cold winter day. Do you know what goes great with grilled cheese sandwiches? Tomato soup.

I also have several recipes that require a can of tomato soup or two. (But definitely not ten). My favorite savory meatloaf recipe is not complete without it. And any time I want to make homemade red sauce, tomato soup is typically on the list.

(Author’s Note: Please don’t ask me when the last time I made homemade red sauce. My answer would be never. šŸ˜‰ )

Finally, one of the cheapest things to purchase these days in the supermarket is soup, and it’s often on sale. Three cans for $5. Okay! And since I can never remember how many cans I used that week, I stock up. Just to be on the safe side.

Besides, what would happen if we had a winter storm, and we were caught unprepared? Yes, we have salt to throw on the sidewalk and driveway. And of course, we would have plenty of bread, milk, and eggs. All the candles and flashlights would be located and strategically placed around the house if the power goes out. And our phones are charged, but what about the tomato soup?!

You all think I’m crazy now, right? Okay, what do you need to have in your pantry or refrigerator at all times? Tell me in the comments.

XO,
Elisa

Enthusiastic Job Hunting

For job seekers, conjuring up enthusiasm daily can sometimes be challenging. I speak from experience because I was laid off in July and have been looking ever since. But I am not just job hunting; I’m planning my next career move. I’m being strategic about it because, above all, I want to be happy with whatever I decide to do next. At this stage in my life and career, I owe it to myself.

Still, it’s tough to manifest the enthusiasm needed to keep going until I find what I’m looking for. Here are a few things I do on interview days and the rest of the time to ensure I’m leading with positive thinking.

On Interview Days

I wake up with a sense of purpose and confidence. In my head, I know I’ve researched the company thoroughly. I have the answers to typical interview questions ready to go and rehearsed my accomplishment stories. On the outside, I dress to impress from head to toe in my best Zoom professional attire and put on a full face of makeup. I admit I used to dress up on top and opt for jeans or leggings and fuzzy socks on the bottom. Lately, it is worth it to go the extra mile. Even if the interviewer can’t see the whole outfit, I know I’m putting my best self out there.

Once in a while, I’ll even schedule a blow dry at the salon the morning of the meeting so that I have a good hair day. This always puts me in a good mood.

Before the interview, I straighten the bookshelf behind me and adjust the ring light for optimal Zoom presence. My resume and the job description are printed and sitting next to me, along with a list of questions to ask the interviewer. During the interview, I’m enthusiastic, poised, and professional. My best performances are when the tone is more of a conversation and less of an interrogation. When we end the interview, I review my notes and write a thank you note that represents my high level of interest and why I’m the perfect candidate for the role.

The Rest of the Time

Lately, the interview process has been taking longer than usual. I suspect it is because of the holiday season and lots of people take time off. Other organizations have end-of-year projects to complete, so everyone is busy.

Admittedly, enthusiasm is more challenging to come by when I’m getting dressed to go grocery shopping or schedule dentist appointments. Later this evening, I will file my weekly unemployment claim wearing my sweatpants and oversized cozy sweatshirt, and a glass of wine by my side. Still, my mood is positive because there is plenty to do. In the mornings, when I’m the most energetic, I post on LinkedIn, apply for other positions, and schedule some networking meetings. In the afternoons, I’ll busy myself with errands and household chores while I check my email incessantly for any news from potential employers.

Planning out each day and sticking to a schedule is key to keeping my positive attitude intact. I also like to get out of the house and go to the library a few times a week. I am much more productive there and feel a sense of accomplishment. In the evenings and on weekends, I give myself a break from the stress so I can be fresh and ready to go on Monday morning. Actually, recharging might be the best strategy of all. (I’ll have to think about that for a future blog post.)

Today’s Enthusiastic Quote

“We must have perseverance and, above all, confidence in ourselves. We must believe that we are gifted for something and that this thing must be attained.” – Marie Curie, scientist.

XO,

Elisa

 

Leaving 2023 Behind

As I think about the new year, here are some of the things I’m definitely leaving behind in 2023.

  • Eating kale ā€“ Iā€™m not a fan.
  • The doctor who encourages me to eat more kale.

  • Buying presents at the last minute.
  • Wrapping presents because Iā€™m terrible at it.

  • Purchasing new books that receive a lot of publicity and undeserved hype.
  • Reading novels set during World War II.
  • Depending on Goodreads for book reviews.

  • Facebook reels ā€“ a waste of precious time.
  • Doom scrolling ā€“ too upsetting

  • Email subscriptions I no longer read
  • Twitter/X

  • Imposter syndrome
  • Overthinking things

  • Binge-watching reality TV shows
  • Listening to the local news before bedtime.

What are you leaving behind in 2023?

XO,

Elisa

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