Life Without A Manual

Fangirls

July 7, 2023
Ultimate Blog Challenge

I sent my sister this photo of me enjoying my latest lifesaving gadget – a personal neck fan. OMG! Where has this thing been all of my life?! Or at least, where has it been in the last year or so? I didn’t know that I needed it as much as I did. These hot and humid days of summer are killing me! I can’t walk my dog around the block without turning into a puddle of sweat. And while the awning over my patio provides a lot of shade, it’s still hot as hell outside. Reading, walking, and living is much better with this fan.

Do I look like an old woman with a futuristic horseshoe-shaped thing around my neck? You bet!

Do I care? Nope! My personal neck fan is cool (pun intended)!

Ask anyone. Well, maybe ask anyone my age.

Back to my sister, we were having a heated discussion about the strict rules our husbands have regarding the thermostat. I had no idea we married people with such fanaticism about air conditioning. I told her about the fan, and she immediately asked me for the link. She ordered it and chose priority overnight shipping. She doesn’t mess around. Now, we don’t have to fight about the thermostat anymore because we are FANGIRLS!

We are so happy right now. I’ve already used it while walking Chloe; it makes a big difference. I plan to bring it everywhere, from the shore to the swim club, and definitely on vacation later this summer. Karen has already said she wants to buy it in different colors. She has a birthday coming up. Maybe I’ll get her a black one so she can accessorize properly. As you can see from these pictures, she is the fashionista of the two of us. 🙂

We are clearly big fans of the fan. Here is the link. Please enjoy!

XO,

Elisa (and Karen)

P.S. I promise you we get no kickbacks from anyone who purchases it.

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How to Pick Your Next Book

July 5, 2023
My Reading Life, Ultimate Blog Challenge

What should I read next, Elisa?

As an avid reader, I get this question a lot. And while I love to share books I enjoyed with others, I worry they won’t be their cup of tea. We all have different tastes when it comes to reading, so I’m never sure if the books I recommend are the right ones. While I’m happy to share my book recs, here are a few do’s and don’t for you to consider when choosing your next book.

Do: Think about what genre you like to read. Are you looking for a romance novel? Do you like mysteries or thrillers that keep you guessing? Is there a topic you want to learn more about? How about a celebrity memoir that you’ve been dying to read? Deciding what type of book you are in the mood for helps you weed out the titles you don’t want to read.

Don’t: Give in to the hype. Just because a book is on the bestsellers list or won a fancy award doesn’t mean it’s the right book for you. Take it from me. I’ve fallen for the hype and have been burned too many times.

Do: Look at what books you have read and enjoyed. Selecting books similar to those you’ve already read is a good way to narrow your choices. Maybe there is a new book written by that author or a particular setting you want to revisit.

Don’t: Don’t be afraid to quit a book. If you start reading a book 50-100 pages in and decide you don’t like it, put it down and find another book! It’s okay. You aren’t obligated to finish it. Life is short, and reading is supposed to be fun. There are plenty of books to choose from. Don’t waste your time on the ones you don’t like.

Do: Ask your friends what books they like. Be careful with this one. If your friend loves Stephen King and you want Emily Henry, find another friend to ask. Or better yet, visit your local independent bookstore and talk to the staff. Let them know what you are looking for. It is literally their job to know their inventory and help you pick the books that are right for you.

Don’t: Read the reviews on Amazon or Goodreads before you read the book. Every reader will have a different experience with a book. Some will love it. Others will hate it. Don’t let that influence you! Plus, you could read spoilers which could ruin the whole book before you even open it to the first page. Even if you are a “read the last page of the book first” type of reader, the reviews could talk you out of reading it altogether. Wait until you finish the book, then read the reviews and see if you agree with them.

Here is how I found my latest 5-star book – “The Perfect Marriage” by Jeneva Rose. I happen to love listening to book-themed podcasts. I knew I was in the mood for a psychological thriller, and this title popped up on a few summer reading episodes. And then the stars must have aligned because I saw the book was part of a sale on Audible. I knew this was a sign, so I downloaded it and finished it in two days. It was EXCELLENT!

I know the right book is out there for you too. Keep looking and enjoy your summer reading!

What are you reading lately, and how did you choose it? Tell me in the comments.

XO,

Elisa