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Extroverted at Home

“Chloe, do you want to go for a walk?”

Chloe looks at me with big eyes and follows me to the front door. Her tail is wagging with excitement.

Chloe, my toy poodle, is the only one home with me during the day. She isn’t much of a conversationalist but always good company.

As an extrovert living at and working from home, I try to get out daily to be people. But on some days when I want to stay indoors, I talk to Chloe about work and books and so forth. After all, she is people to us.

But it’s not the same. And yes, I know the difference. 🙂

Yesterday, I went to a local networking event called Coffee and Conversation. Two things I love the most!

On the enthusiasm meter between feeling meh and being super-excited, my scale read SIGN ME UP!

I didn’t know who would attend, but I didn’t care. I’ve always been good at networking events. I would make new friends; I mean business contacts. When I got there, I was happy to see people I knew. It’s nice to chat with friends first. Friends who don’t care if you had your first cup of coffee yet or not. (I hadn’t).

One friend hugged me, and we chatted about many things, especially jigsaw puzzles (another favorite pastime of mine that we share). I huddled beside my other friend who showed me photos from her son’s wedding. Everything looked beautiful, and I told her so.

And then, the networking officially began. The formal part of the event gives everyone the opportunity to give a 30-second elevator speech. After my spiel, one attendee made a beeline to me, and we talked for a while about her nonprofit. We had a lot in common, and my heart did an internal happy dance.

And then she gave me a hug. She had no idea how much I needed another hug. We are having breakfast next week.

I didn’t really want to leave because there was more people to talk to. However, the weather was getting nasty outside, and I had a few calls to make at home. And Chloe missed me. Plus, everyone else needed to get back to work.

Do I sound needy? I hope not. I do enjoy working from home. When I’m busy, the hours fly by, and I don’t feel the need to go anywhere. But on quiet days, it’s a different story. I think about those water cooler moments where I used to socialize with colleagues while we made our breakfast or grab a doughnut from the break room. While Zoom boxes get the job done, it’s not like sitting in cubicles overhearing the latest gossip and interrupting each other’s conversations.

Weird. I used to hate the interruptions, and sometimes, I actually look forward to them. Because above all, it’s the connections I miss the most. And because, you know…people.

And people who need people are the luckiest people in the world.

Author’s Note: I had no idea how to end this, so I chose Barbra Streisand. 

Are you an extrovert working from home? Or are you an introvert that is thankful COVID changed the way we all work now? Tell me in the comments.

XO,

Elisa

Enthusiastic Job Hunting

For job seekers, conjuring up enthusiasm daily can sometimes be challenging. I speak from experience because I was laid off in July and have been looking ever since. But I am not just job hunting; I’m planning my next career move. I’m being strategic about it because, above all, I want to be happy with whatever I decide to do next. At this stage in my life and career, I owe it to myself.

Still, it’s tough to manifest the enthusiasm needed to keep going until I find what I’m looking for. Here are a few things I do on interview days and the rest of the time to ensure I’m leading with positive thinking.

On Interview Days

I wake up with a sense of purpose and confidence. In my head, I know I’ve researched the company thoroughly. I have the answers to typical interview questions ready to go and rehearsed my accomplishment stories. On the outside, I dress to impress from head to toe in my best Zoom professional attire and put on a full face of makeup. I admit I used to dress up on top and opt for jeans or leggings and fuzzy socks on the bottom. Lately, it is worth it to go the extra mile. Even if the interviewer can’t see the whole outfit, I know I’m putting my best self out there.

Once in a while, I’ll even schedule a blow dry at the salon the morning of the meeting so that I have a good hair day. This always puts me in a good mood.

Before the interview, I straighten the bookshelf behind me and adjust the ring light for optimal Zoom presence. My resume and the job description are printed and sitting next to me, along with a list of questions to ask the interviewer. During the interview, I’m enthusiastic, poised, and professional. My best performances are when the tone is more of a conversation and less of an interrogation. When we end the interview, I review my notes and write a thank you note that represents my high level of interest and why I’m the perfect candidate for the role.

The Rest of the Time

Lately, the interview process has been taking longer than usual. I suspect it is because of the holiday season and lots of people take time off. Other organizations have end-of-year projects to complete, so everyone is busy.

Admittedly, enthusiasm is more challenging to come by when I’m getting dressed to go grocery shopping or schedule dentist appointments. Later this evening, I will file my weekly unemployment claim wearing my sweatpants and oversized cozy sweatshirt, and a glass of wine by my side. Still, my mood is positive because there is plenty to do. In the mornings, when I’m the most energetic, I post on LinkedIn, apply for other positions, and schedule some networking meetings. In the afternoons, I’ll busy myself with errands and household chores while I check my email incessantly for any news from potential employers.

Planning out each day and sticking to a schedule is key to keeping my positive attitude intact. I also like to get out of the house and go to the library a few times a week. I am much more productive there and feel a sense of accomplishment. In the evenings and on weekends, I give myself a break from the stress so I can be fresh and ready to go on Monday morning. Actually, recharging might be the best strategy of all. (I’ll have to think about that for a future blog post.)

Today’s Enthusiastic Quote

“We must have perseverance and, above all, confidence in ourselves. We must believe that we are gifted for something and that this thing must be attained.” – Marie Curie, scientist.

XO,

Elisa

 

My 2024 Word of the Year

My 2024 Word of the year with photos of working, writing, reading, travel, and a flower blooming. I’ve written this blog post a few times already. Each time, it featured a different word and why I selected it. And then I deleted the entire post. I’m not sure why this year is giving me so much trouble—more trouble than it’s probably worth. It’s not like I pick a word and remember it all year. But I do like asking myself what qualities I want to manifest in the new year. What do I want to accomplish? What do I want to do more of this year?

Here are my answers. I want to manifest a good mix of fun, success, and self-confidence in 2024. I want a new job that I love to wake up and go to every day. I want to feel valued, maximized, and well-compensated in that job. I want to travel more and spend time with people I love who live nearby and far away.

Too much? Too bad! 😀

Some words for this year I came up with already were mindful and resilient. But they didn’t resonate with me like the words I chose over the years. In 2023, my word was GROWTH. 2022, it was CONNECT. 2021 was TODAY. And 2020 was BELIEVE. They all served me well. I want this word to be just as good, even if I forget what I picked by February.

So, I went back and looked at my blog posts over the last two days, listing 24 things I want to do in 2024. Find a job. Travel domestically and abroad. Read 50 books. Try two new recipes a month. If I’m going to even attempt to accomplish all of these things, I need some ambition, devotion, and positive energy.

Do you know what all of that sounds like? ENTHUSIASM!

Here are a few quotes about enthusiasm that spoke to me.

  • “Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson, poet
  • “I hope you dance.” – Lee Ann Womack, singer/songwriter
 

What do you think of my word? Also, did you pick a word for 2024? Tell me what it is in the comments and what it means to you.

XO,
Elisa

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