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24 Things To Do in 2024: Part I

24 in 2024

A note pad with 2024 to do list at the top.

Happiness Project author Gretchen Rubin and her sister (whose name I can’t remember right now) propose this challenge every year. Come up with a to-do list of 24 things to accomplish in 2024. On this list are big things, little things, stupid things, and things I want to do. I know I’ll never get to all of them, but if I’m ever bored at some point this year, there is surely something on this list I can try to cross out.

Also, because I feel the need to expand upon each of these items, I’m making this a two-part post. Here are the first 14 items on my list. Tune in tomorrow for the rest!

  1. Find and join a trivia team.

    Here are my qualifications for joining your trivia team. I grew up on Jeopardy and Trivial Pursuit. Now, I listen to many podcasts and can do the NYT crossword puzzle in under an hour. I love to read and have an affinity for uncommon knowledge and fun facts. On cruises or at resorts, you can find me at the daily trivia contest while others are by the pool. So how about it? If you have room for me on your trivia team, let’s make it happen!

  2. Plan a trip to Europe and book it.

    In my life, I haven’t traveled much overseas, so I have some catching up to do. I had hoped to go on my first European vacation in 2021. Well, we all know what happened that year. But now that there is a better understanding of COVID-19 and more people are getting vaccinated, I’d like to plan a trip and then go on it in the Fall of 2024 or Spring of 2025.

  3. Go down the shore three times this summer.

    Travel is going to be a common theme on my 2024 list. We live two hours from the Jersey shore, and yet we don’t go there that often. Mainly because we don’t have a place to stay, and it can get expensive. However, day trips are not out of the question, so I’d like to prioritize going at least three times this summer, sit on the beach, buy some fudge, stroll on the boardwalk, and play skee-ball.

  4. More day trips/date nights with Scott.

    As empty nesters, we don’t have to worry about homework, school nights, activities, games, meets, and recitals. This means we can go out to dinner on a Tuesday night or catch a movie during the week. Or we can take a day and find dog-friendly places to enjoy. We live in a great part of the country and the possibilities are endless.

  5. Plan my own writing and reading retreat.

    I don’t have to go away for this, but I want to carve out a weekend where I eat, sleep, read, and write and that’s it. It shouldn’t be hard, but I’m always distracted by real life, last-minute invitations, and, of course, laundry. But if I tell people ahead of time and make a plan, this will be something easy to check off the list.

  6. Write for (at least) 24 minutes every day.

    Whether it is my blog, book, or freelancing gigs, I will make time to write for 24 minutes a day. You would be surprised how much writing I don’t do because I’m scheduling social media posts, selecting and cropping photos, and creating content beyond the copy. I will also track it so I know what I accomplished and feel more productive.

  7. Meet with a genetic counselor.

    Part of the book I’m working on is about Parkinson’s Disease, which can have genetic and environmental causes. With this condition on both sides of my family, I’d like to know if it is worth getting tested for the genes. I know there is no cure, so what would I do with that information? This is all part of my writing journey, and my book won’t be complete without at least having the conversation.

  8. Get more active on LinkedIn.

    My LinkedIn network is so generous with their time and advice as I continue to find a new job. While I don’t get a lot of engagement on my posts right now, I plan to fix that in the future. I want to dive into this platform and reap the benefits while giving back.

  9. Two networking events and three coffees a month.

    I love meeting new people, finding something in common, and building a working relationship from there. There will be opportunities for me to help them at some point, which will give me great joy. When those chances come up, I’ll be ready to happily oblige.

  10. Figure out my next career move.

    Full-time. Part-Time. Consulting. Freelancing. Rule the world. Who knows?!

  11. Find a fitness routine or a personal trainer and stick with it.

    Walking around my neighborhood is about all I do to exercise. I know I need a better cardio workout. I know I need strength training. I know I’m not getting any younger, and the work I put in to my body and health now will help me as I age. This year, I have to make it a priority.

  12. Read 50 books this year.

    Last year, I read 33 books but I had hoped to read more. This year, I want to reach this magic number. I’m not sure how I’ll do it, but I’m determined. However, I have one caveat. I don’t want to rush through my reading to get to that number and not enjoy myself along the way. The whole idea of reading to me is to immerse myself in new worlds, wonderful characters, and great stories. If I find myself rushing, I will purposely slow myself down. Otherwise, why am I doing this?

  13. No Book Buy July

    I’ll be the first to admit that I have too many books on my shelf and Kindle. I’m starting to worry that I’m more of a book collector than a reader. That may be why the goal above is important to me. Maybe I need to prove it to myself. Anyway, I didn’t buy any books last July, and it was pretty great. I rearranged my physical books and, organized the downloads and made a plan. One that I plan to stick to this year by reading books I own.

  14. Go on an indie bookstore crawl.

    Okay, now ignore everything I just wrote about not buying more books because I REALLY WANT TO DO THIS. There are so many independent bookstores I have yet to explore. Each store has its own specialty, charm, and staff of readers. I can’t promise I won’t buy books to support their wonderful businesses (and my own personal gain). I can promise that I won’t schedule this adventure in July.

What do you think of my list so far? Let me know in the comments below.
 

XO,

Elisa

Leaving 2023 Behind

As I think about the new year, here are some of the things I’m definitely leaving behind in 2023.

  • Eating kale – I’m not a fan.
  • The doctor who encourages me to eat more kale.
  • Buying presents at the last minute.
  • Wrapping presents because I’m terrible at it.
  • Purchasing new books that receive a lot of publicity and undeserved hype.
  • Reading novels set during World War II.
  • Depending on Goodreads for book reviews.
  • Facebook reels – a waste of precious time.
  • Doom scrolling – too upsetting
  • Email subscriptions I no longer read
  • Twitter/X
  • Imposter syndrome
  • Overthinking things
  • Binge-watching reality TV shows
  • Listening to the local news before bedtime.

What are you leaving behind in 2023?

XO,

Elisa

December 2023 Book Report

Hi friends! I am participating in the Ultimate Blog Challenge, where I will post a daily blog post all month. That’s 31 blog posts! I look forward to reading other people’s blogs who are doing this challenge with me. I also really appreciate the likes and comments you bestow upon me. It helps to know I have a real live audience and that I’m not writing into cyberspace. I promise to respond to every single one of them! Thanks in advance for reading.

At the beginning of December, I was eight books behind on my 2023 Goodreads goal. I thought there was no way I’d read that many books in one month.

I thought wrong.

Knowing that listening to a book is much faster than reading them on the couch, I figured I had a chance to reach my goal. In case you are someone who thinks listening to books is cheating or not really reading, just imagine being read to by a talented narrator while making dinner or running errands. And then, imagine that the story is so good that you tack on a few more errands just so you can finish another chapter.

Convinced? Well, I tried. 🙂

This month, I read four books on Audible, one Kindle download, and three in print. To reach my Goodreads goal, some of the books I selected were less than 200 pages and were just as enjoyable as the others. I can’t remember the last time I read eight books in a month, but I’m proud of myself for not only reaching my goal but being able to enjoy each of these titles. Here are the books I read in December.

Fiction

Nora Goes Off Script by Annabel Monaghan
272 pages/Kindle

I was afraid to read this book at first. It received a lot of hype, and when that happens, I’m often left disappointed. But the title kept coming up in the reading-themed podcasts that I listen to, so I gave it a shot. I’m so glad I did.

Nora is a romance channel writer who turns the story of her failed marriage into a big-screen, blockbuster movie. When the actors and crew film at her home, the tables are turned on her life. She finds herself falling for the lead actor who happens to be playing her husband. Of course, he is nothing like her husband, but it all gets complicated in the most entertaining way. Add in a few adorable and inquisitive children and you’ve got yourself a great read.

Romantic Comedy by Curtis Sittenfeld
309 pages/Audible

Go behind the scenes of an SNL-type show and step into the shoes of a writer who pulls back the curtain on how sketches are selected and produced each week. The author did not leave out any details, making it so easy to get into the book.

On top of this, the relationship between the writer and the guest host did not disappoint. Add in the COVID-19 pandemic and the accompanying neurosis in a typical partnership, and you’ve got yourself a great read. The narrator was excellent, and I thoroughly enjoyed it.

The Leftover Woman by Jean Kwok
288 pages/Audible

When someone in my book club recommended this to the group, I was all in. Historical fiction is my jam, and surprisingly, I haven’t read a lot of it this year. This is something I will rectify in 2024.

Here is the setup: Jasmine comes from a rural Chinese village where she left her controlling husband to search for the daughter she was told had died in childbirth. Meanwhile, Rebecca appears to have the perfect life in NYC with a fantastic job, a wonderful husband, and a beautiful adopted Chinese daughter. The story that unfolds for each woman has many twists and turns. I was fully invested in their storylines. When their lives intertwine, the result is both surprising and captivating.

I also learned a lot about Chinese culture and the “one-child policy,” where women were subjected to sterilization and abortion and abandoning daughters for sons. The historical context, along with modern themes of women’s empowerment and economic and cultural differences, drew me into this story and left me wanting more.

This is one of the books that I added miles on the car just to keep listening. 🙂  Highly recommend! I can’t wait for book club to discuss this one.

The Mostly True Story of Tanner & Louise by Colleen Oakley
352 pages/Audible

I chose this as my last book of the year. It was a fun ride as I felt myself sitting in the backseat of a classic Jaguar, enjoying the banter of Tanner, a 21-year-old woman with an uncertain future, and a not-to-be-underestimated elderly woman named Louise. They are on the run, but only Louise why. Tanner is behind the wheel, but Louise is doing all of the steering throughout this road trip. Parts of the truth unfold in rest areas, diners, bars, and hotels until they finally reach their destination.

Tanner and Louise are accompanied on this trip by side characters who are just as intriguing as the protagonists. Everyone has a backstory and plays a sizeable role in the plot. I’d definitely recommend this one to people who enjoy a little mystery, romance, and humor rolled up into one excellent read.

Nonfiction

I Could Chew on This: And Other Poems by Dogs by Francesco Marciuliano
112 pages/Print

This little book of poetry will have dog lovers and owners laughing out loud. Some of my personal favorites include: “I Lose My Mind When You Leave the House,” “Purse Dog,” and “Halloween.”

For cat lovers, this author has a companion book of poems called “I Could Pee On This.” I haven’t read it because I’m highly allergic to cats, but I’m sure felines are just as funny. Maybe…

Nothing Like I Imagined (Except for Sometimes) by Mindy Kaling
118 pages/Audible

I love it when a celebrity is also a brilliant writer. Mindy Kaling’s smart collection of essays addresses everything from single parenting to social anxiety. This is the first book I read about her and by her, but definitely not the last.

No Crying in Baseball: The Inside Story of A League of Their Own by Erin Carlson
320 pages/Print/Library Book

This year, I read three behind-the-scenes books about some of my favorite movies. The first one was “The Church of Baseball,” which was about the making of Bull Durham. I loved that book because I’m a fan of both the movie and the sport. Unfortunately, I didn’t enjoy “Surely You Can’t Be Serious,” about one of the funniest movies I’ve ever watched, Airplane! This book was more about getting the movie made and sold rather than great stories about the film itself. (I do a full review this book, here). After I finished the book, the only thought I had was that it looked like I picked the wrong week to quit drinking. 😉

When I heard about this book, I was thrilled. I loved this movie and watch it often. The author did her homework about this movie and leaves nothing out. From Penny Marshall’s directing style to Madonna’s diva-like attitude on set to giving Tom Hanks his second chance in movies, there were so many anecdotes. It was hard to pick a favorite, but I’ll say the story behind casting Geena Davis instead of Debra Winger was a winner. Minor characters and plot lines were also discussed in the book which made this book that much more enjoyable.

I finished this book in two days and will probably reread it and then watch the movie again.

The Art of Living: Reflections on Mindfulness and the Overexamined Life by Grant Snider
144 pages/Print

How do I even begin to explain this book? For once, I’ll have to go to the Goodreads description because I can’t do it justice. “Beloved cartoonist Grant Snider has created a humorous, uplifting look at mindfulness in this collection of one- and two-page comics that map his inner thoughts, poetic observations, and frequent failures at living mindfully.”

In a word, this author/cartoonist is brilliant. I also enjoyed “I Will Judge You by Your Bookshelf,” which should be on every book lover’s shelf if it isn’t already. Each of his cartoons in “The Art of Living” makes you think a little and smile a lot. He has a way of breaking down his thoughts into small moments that truly capture my heart. I highly recommend this, especially at the start of a new year.

What did you read in December? Let me know in the comments!

XO,

Elisa

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