January 2024 archive

Enthusiastic Job Hunting

For job seekers, conjuring up enthusiasm daily can sometimes be challenging. I speak from experience because I was laid off in July and have been looking ever since. But I am not just job hunting; I’m planning my next career move. I’m being strategic about it because, above all, I want to be happy with whatever I decide to do next. At this stage in my life and career, I owe it to myself.

Still, it’s tough to manifest the enthusiasm needed to keep going until I find what I’m looking for. Here are a few things I do on interview days and the rest of the time to ensure I’m leading with positive thinking.

On Interview Days

I wake up with a sense of purpose and confidence. In my head, I know I’ve researched the company thoroughly. I have the answers to typical interview questions ready to go and rehearsed my accomplishment stories. On the outside, I dress to impress from head to toe in my best Zoom professional attire and put on a full face of makeup. I admit I used to dress up on top and opt for jeans or leggings and fuzzy socks on the bottom. Lately, it is worth it to go the extra mile. Even if the interviewer can’t see the whole outfit, I know I’m putting my best self out there.

Once in a while, I’ll even schedule a blow dry at the salon the morning of the meeting so that I have a good hair day. This always puts me in a good mood.

Before the interview, I straighten the bookshelf behind me and adjust the ring light for optimal Zoom presence. My resume and the job description are printed and sitting next to me, along with a list of questions to ask the interviewer. During the interview, I’m enthusiastic, poised, and professional. My best performances are when the tone is more of a conversation and less of an interrogation. When we end the interview, I review my notes and write a thank you note that represents my high level of interest and why I’m the perfect candidate for the role.

The Rest of the Time

Lately, the interview process has been taking longer than usual. I suspect it is because of the holiday season and lots of people take time off. Other organizations have end-of-year projects to complete, so everyone is busy.

Admittedly, enthusiasm is more challenging to come by when I’m getting dressed to go grocery shopping or schedule dentist appointments. Later this evening, I will file my weekly unemployment claim wearing my sweatpants and oversized cozy sweatshirt, and a glass of wine by my side. Still, my mood is positive because there is plenty to do. In the mornings, when I’m the most energetic, I post on LinkedIn, apply for other positions, and schedule some networking meetings. In the afternoons, I’ll busy myself with errands and household chores while I check my email incessantly for any news from potential employers.

Planning out each day and sticking to a schedule is key to keeping my positive attitude intact. I also like to get out of the house and go to the library a few times a week. I am much more productive there and feel a sense of accomplishment. In the evenings and on weekends, I give myself a break from the stress so I can be fresh and ready to go on Monday morning. Actually, recharging might be the best strategy of all. (I’ll have to think about that for a future blog post.)

Today’s Enthusiastic Quote

“We must have perseverance and, above all, confidence in ourselves. We must believe that we are gifted for something and that this thing must be attained.” – Marie Curie, scientist.

XO,

Elisa

 

My 2024 Word of the Year

My 2024 Word of the year with photos of working, writing, reading, travel, and a flower blooming. I’ve written this blog post a few times already. Each time, it featured a different word and why I selected it. And then I deleted the entire post. I’m not sure why this year is giving me so much trouble—more trouble than it’s probably worth. It’s not like I pick a word and remember it all year. But I do like asking myself what qualities I want to manifest in the new year. What do I want to accomplish? What do I want to do more of this year?

Here are my answers. I want to manifest a good mix of fun, success, and self-confidence in 2024. I want a new job that I love to wake up and go to every day. I want to feel valued, maximized, and well-compensated in that job. I want to travel more and spend time with people I love who live nearby and far away.

Too much? Too bad! 😀

Some words for this year I came up with already were mindful and resilient. But they didn’t resonate with me like the words I chose over the years. In 2023, my word was GROWTH. 2022, it was CONNECT. 2021 was TODAY. And 2020 was BELIEVE. They all served me well. I want this word to be just as good, even if I forget what I picked by February.

So, I went back and looked at my blog posts over the last two days, listing 24 things I want to do in 2024. Find a job. Travel domestically and abroad. Read 50 books. Try two new recipes a month. If I’m going to even attempt to accomplish all of these things, I need some ambition, devotion, and positive energy.

Do you know what all of that sounds like? ENTHUSIASM!

Here are a few quotes about enthusiasm that spoke to me.

  • “Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson, poet
  • “I hope you dance.” – Lee Ann Womack, singer/songwriter
 

What do you think of my word? Also, did you pick a word for 2024? Tell me what it is in the comments and what it means to you.

XO,
Elisa

24 Things To Do in 2024: Part II

Yesterday, I wrote 14 out of 24 things I want to try to accomplish in the new year. If you missed that post, you can read it here. The first half of my list was well thought out and focused on my passions, like reading and writing. The rest is off the top of my head and consists of items that could be considered low-hanging fruit, but I should probably add them to the list anyway.

SPOILER ALERT: The last item is the one I’m looking forward to the most in 2024.

15. Cook two new recipes a month. 

I am a little tired of our go-to meals of turkey meatloaf and honey dijon mustard chicken. They are delicious meals, but I make them all the time. I should branch out and try something new. So, I’d like to cook two new recipes monthly and see if they are good enough to add to the rotation. I bought a new cookbook last year that I haven’t opened yet, but it promises “recipes for keeps and essential techniques to master everyday cooking.” Sounds good to me. If nothing else, the experience will make for good blog content.

16. Deep clean one room every month. When I’m finished, add something to the room that it needs or looks nice.

I’ve been on a mission lately to clean out closets and organize drawers, but it’s time to go next level. I want to deep clean certain rooms in the house that are stressing me out. My laundry room could be much more user-friendly. If you go in there to find something, it will take longer than you think. The dining room is too plain for my taste. Plain as in BORING! We redid our kitchen a few years ago and knocked down a wall. The dining room furniture doesn’t go with the look I’m trying to accomplish, so this needs to be fixed. And my bedroom which should be my sanctuary for rest and relaxation but is in a constant state of disarray. I’ve moved the same notebooks, magazines, and loose papers  around the room in hopes of organizing them to no avail. Also, our bedroom closets are not set up for putting clothes away neatly and easy to access. Many items wind up on the floor and then I push them out of the way, recreating the messy state of my bedroom week after week. It’s all so frustrating.

This year, I want to clean these rooms out and then add something the room could use, like new artwork on the wall or replacing the ceiling light in my home office, which doesn’t do its job adequately. This will be fun, and I will start with the laundry room.

17. Get a Real ID and TSA Precheck status.

These items have been on my list for a few years. Each will take a few hours of my time to complete and then it will be done. What am I waiting for? Apparently, 2024.

18. Increase participation in the communities I love or want to get to know better. 

I’m already an active participant in a local writers’ group and neighborhood book club. Lately, I haven’t been attending events or services at my synagogue, a community I love being part of and spending time with. I need to try on a few committees or activities to see where my interests lie, but I miss it.

Last year, I also joined the local chamber of commerce and am interested in providing freelance writing services to small businesses and nonprofits as a side gig. They are an amazing group of people who have already welcomed me into the fold. I will keep those relationships going and get more involved in the new year.

19. Visit 2-4 places I’ve never been to before but always wanted to see.

A few months ago, I told a friend I wanted to visit the National Comedy Museum in upstate New York. To my surprise, she was also looking to go there, so I’d love to make that happen this year. My husband isn’t the biggest fan of museums, so this will probably be a girls trip.

This also got me thinking about other places I’ve yet to go, like the Barnes Foundation right here in Philadelphia. Another friend runs an Airbnb in Cape May, NJ. While I’m originally from New Jersey, I’ve never been to this shore town. I’m sure I’ll come across other places within driving distance of Philadelphia I’d also like to visit. Suggestions welcome!

20. Drink more water. 

No explanation is needed here. I just need to do it often enough that it becomes second nature to grab a bottle of water instead of a can of soda.

21. Go to a live show. 

I love attending concerts, watching comedy shows, and seeing a show or a play, but I stopped going because of the pandemic. It would be great to bring back some culture into my world.

22. Find and purchase a new Haggadah for our Passover Seder.  

This is a tough one but it needs to be done. I have used the same Haggadah for our Passover Seder for the last ten years. It is geared toward the youngest family members, but it is time to upgrade. I’d still like to keep the seder to 30-45 minutes, but I want to make it more meaningful and appropriate for the people around my table. Since I lead the seder every April, I’ll have to start looking soon, choose one (there are so many options!), and buy enough so each guest can follow along.

23. Learn the right makeup color palette is for me. 

From the spiritual to the superficial, I can’t get the right colors for my skin tone when I buy makeup. I have an olive complexion and green eyes. The eyeshadow always looks pretty in the case, but sometimes I don’t like it when I get home. My blush is also either too pink or too blended in. And don’t get me started on lipsticks. I have so many colors and can’t seem to get it right. One of these days, I will be brave enough to walk into Ulta or another beauty counter and let the salespeople pamper me.

24. Do something completely out of character. 

I love this one because I have no idea what it means. But I’ll know it when I see it, and I’ll say YES!

That’s it! That’s 24 things to do in 2024! What made it to your list?

XO,

Elisa

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