April 2023 archive

Food, Faith, and Family

Passover begins tonight, and I’m ready for a little holiday spirit. This year, I’m being very intentional about staying present and enjoying the moment. I work as a communications director for a Jewish organization, and most of the time, I’m planning content two holidays ahead of where we are right now. Because of my line of work, holidays tend to pass me by, one after the next, without a lot of time for personal fulfillment. I guess you could call it an occupational hazard.

So today, I want to take a few minutes here to state my intentions about how I’m approaching Passover 2023.

Food

I admit that Passover food is not my favorite. Once the first two Passover seders are over, I get tired of brisket and chicken. Like post-Thanksgiving leftovers, I tend to nosh on the side dishes like sweet and sour meatballs, matzah kugels, and chocolate macaroons for days. By the end of the holiday, my stomach asks for freedom from all of that matzah. But I understand the sacrifice I’m making by forgoing bread to remember that we were once slaves in Egypt. It’s also important to remember those who still aren’t free to live authentically and make decisions about their bodily autonomy. I won’t sugar coat it. I’m talking about abortion access, LGBTQ+ rights, and racial justice just to name a few of the issues the themes of Passover can bring to light.

Faith

My favorite part of the holiday is the Passover seder and finding ways to connect the story to modern life. Themes like springtime and starting anew, and going from slavery to freedom are still relevant today. For me, I might be looking for a new start, a new adventure. I’m constantly reinventing myself, and the ideas are starting to brew again. As for the social justice themes I mentioned above, I am empowered by my faith to believe as I do. I know others have different points of view based on their core beliefs. I respect that. But I don’t think one person’s faith should trump another person’s faith. Can’t we all just get along without telling each other what books to read, who to love, and how to live?

Family

Ok, I lied. Being with family is my favorite part of all the Jewish holidays. My kids are very intentional when it comes to celebrating this holiday. Andrew just called from campus to ask when Passover starts so he can plan his meals accordingly. Jenna is leading the Passover seder at Towson Hillel. I lead my seder, but we are not doing ours until Saturday when everyone can be home. Tonight, we will spend the first night of Passover with my parents, aunt, uncle, and lots of cousins. I blessed to have a large family to celebrate with. And carrying on the Passover traditions has always a priorit to me as a Jewish mom. Looking around the seder table, I am so proud that we take the time out of our busy schedules to make it a priority to be together and celebrate.

Wishing all who celebrate a zissen Pesach!

XO,

Elisa

March 2023 Book Report

This is not a good time to be in a reading slump, but I find myself without the energy to start a new book right now. It’s not because I have nothing to read. On the contrary, I have about 200 titles divided between my bookshelves, my Audible library, and my e-reader, just waiting for me to pick one. Apparently, what I lack in decision-making, I make up in book buying! Don’t worry, I didn’t buy them all at once. But now I find myself with too many titles to choose from.

Am I in the mood for a memoir or a mystery? I couldn’t tell you.

All is not lost, and I’m not a quitter-especially when it comes to reading. I’ve already read eight books this year, which is a decent amount. I’m still two books behind on reaching my Goodreads goal of 40 titles by the end of the year, which means I need to snap out of it soon. But I know myself. I’ll catch up when the weather gets nicer, and when my job is a little less busy, and when I finally decide on the next book I want to read.

So without further ado, here are the four books I read in March.

The Golden Spoon by Jessa Maxwell

I’ve heard that after you read a good book, you can develop a bit of a hangover—a book hangover. This might be part of what is happening right now because The Golden Spoon did not disappoint. Set in a baking show competition, six contestants travel to a remote location to appear on Bake Week and win a coveted trophy—The Golden Spoon. Each contestant has their own backstory and reasons for wanting to be there. The competition starts off innocently enough, but by day three, someone is murdered, and everyone is considered a suspect. This “whodunnit” story was a lot of fun to read. Both the cast of characters and the storyline moved along at a quick pace, and I couldn’t put it down. I listened to this book on Audible which featured a bunch of voiceover actors. I gave it four stars. Bon Appetit!

Waxing On: The Karate Kid and Me by Ralph Macchio

After listening to a podcast featuring Ralph Macchio, I couldn’t wait to read his memoir. His poster had a permanent place on the wall of my childhood bedroom, right next to the other “Outsiders” Rob Lowe and Tom Cruise. His puppy dog eyes reached into my 13-year-old soul and stole my heart. On the other hand, his writing left a lot to be desired.

The Karate Kid is one of my favorite 80s movies. There is a clear chemistry between the actors that is hard to achieve. The behind-the-scenes stories were fun to read to a point. But the endless comparisons between the movie and his tv show Cobra Kai annoyed me. I don’t watch a ton of television because, supposedly, I’d rather be reading. And since I haven’t watched Cobra Kai, some of his stories were lost on me. Sadly, the book felt like a promotional tool instead of a memoir. I would have liked to read about his childhood, his family life, his struggles with fame (although he managed to avoid the alcohol and drugs so prominent in that era), and any other movie or show he has been in. What about the Outsiders? Maybe a few chapters on My Cousin Vinny. Very few pages were dedicated to these classic movies.

Even if I watched Cobra Kai and wanted to learn more about it, I’m not sure I would read his book again. He wrote the book as if in conversation with me. His annoying interjections to let me know to “stay tuned for the next chapter” or “I’ll talk more about that later” needed to be edited out in favor of much smoother transitions. I gave this two stars.

Lucky Man by Michael J. Fox

Now this memoir is more like it! This was a re-read for me, and it is still one of my favorite 80s celebrity memoirs. Michael J. Fox is a gifted storyteller who shares everything from his childhood, family life, and personal battle with alcoholism and how he now copes with Parkinson’s disease. He also shared many stories about his work in both film and tv, including Family Ties, Spin City, and Back to the Future. He left nothing out and left me wanting more. Fortunately, he has written three other books that I have also enjoyed immensely. I can’t recommend it high enough – five stars.

Mary Jane by Jessica Anya Blau

One thing I’ve learned about myself as a reader is that I love plot-driven books. I don’t like stories that are slow to start, and not much happens except for this one. This story is a character study about a teenage girl who lives a sheltered life in 1970s Baltimore. Her innocence stems from a religious mother and an inattentive father. When she takes a summer nanny job for a different kind of family, she is exposed to a whole new and groovy lifestyle. And she digs it. I loved the nostalgia in this book, and the protagonist reminds me a lot of my younger self. You do have to suspend some sense of reality in this book, and the ending is a little hard to believe, but it worked for me – four stars.

I also DNF’ed (Did Not Finish) one book called “Winterland” by Rae Meadows. I decided to listen to this book about the world of competitive gymnastics in the Soviet Union. I remember watching the Olympics and the drama surrounding American vs. Russian gymnasts. Unfortunately, this is a character study that was going nowhere. I’ve listened to about a third of this book and asked some people in a private Facebook group whether this book was going to get any better. The answer was no. Bummer. On to the next one.

What have you been reading lately? Tell me in the comments! I need a few good book recommendations.

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