Reinventing Myself

Here I am on the first day of a new blog challenge, wondering what the heck I will write about for 30 days straight. The last time, I did the Ultimate Blog Challenge (UBC), I focused on one of my favorite topics – books and reading. By honing in on my reading life, I now know my likes and dislikes. I created good habits to get the most out of my books. I broke some bad habits and can easily identify what I want my reading life to look like going forward. In short, it was a reinvention of one of my favorite past times

This month, I’m planning to dive into a much larger and deeply personal topic – reinventing myself and what that means for the next chapter of my life and writing career. I’ve done this several times over. It isn’t an easy process, but always a worthwhile one.

The title of my blog is not just a title – for me, it’s a way of life without any sort of manual. I always do my very best. I succeed. I fail. I make mistakes. I learn from them, and I move on. This ongoing evolution began in full force in my formative years as an often bullied and woefully unpopular caterpillar in middle school and high school. Back then, I reinvented myself into a much more confident butterfly in college. So much so that some people didn’t recognize me at my high school reunion. Talk about a metamorphosis!

From there, I went from being a single young adult and budding writer to a wife, mother, and career woman. And then – before I knew it – I turned 50 this past year. It was quite a milestone in many ways. I’m learning to say yes to the things I want and no to everything else. As an inherent people-pleaser, this is no easy task. But in doing so, I am taking a pause to make more intentional decisions about what I want and where to go from here.

This seems like as good of a time as any to reflect on these things. After all, at the end of this coming school year, I will be an empty nester which comes with a host of emotions. Some of them I’m already experiencing like sadness, nostalgia, and nausea. Others will come out of left field. And all I know is that as I get older, I still find myself in situations where I don’t know what to do. The difference now is that I might be expected to know because I have all of this life experience behind me. But the truth is, I’m still learning and growing, and reinventing myself – and that’s what I’ll explore this month through my blog posts.

Care to join me? Whether you are my age or have reinvented yourself at any stage of your life, I hope you find something that resonates with you here. Please share your comments with me, and I promise to reply One of the best things about writing is sharing my stories and then listening to and learning from other people’s experiences. I hope you will share yours with me. And if you don’t have anything to say but like what you’ve read – a simple thumbs up on Facebook works just as well. It helps me tremendously to know when something I’ve written resonates with you. Writing can be lonely sometimes. Hitting “publish” and posting these posts is my attempt at being brave and expressing myself. Your support means the world to me and keeps me going.

I’d love to hear from you!

XOXO

Elisa

8 comments on Reinventing Myself

  1. Jeanine Byers
    August 1, 2021 at 6:51 pm (2 months ago)

    I am reinventing myself, too, although for me, my goal is to carve away all the falseness to get to factory default. Who did I come here to be? Getting closer & closer!! Looking forward to reading your posts.

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    • Elisa
      August 2, 2021 at 7:53 pm (2 months ago)

      Hi Jeanine! I love that analogy… I too am looking for the factory settings and weeding out the distractions. It isn’t easy but I’m getting there.

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  2. Anita
    August 1, 2021 at 4:42 pm (2 months ago)

    This sounds like it will be an interesting month. I am almost an empty nester, just one left at home who is talking about moving out soon. I will come back and check out your posts during the month and hopefully learn something to help me out.

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    • Elisa
      August 2, 2021 at 7:55 pm (2 months ago)

      Hi Anita! This might be the hardest transition of them all. What do we do with our free time? And how do we make the most of it! I hope you share your story too, so we can learn from each other.

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  3. Janis
    August 1, 2021 at 4:26 pm (2 months ago)

    Yes, yes, yes! Love this! Every day, we are capable of learning and growth, and all of these transition points provide so much opportunity to focus on how we’re going to embrace that. Love this, love you, and can’t wait to hear more about this part of the journey.

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    • Elisa
      August 2, 2021 at 7:56 pm (2 months ago)

      Love you, my friend!

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  4. Rachel Lavern
    August 1, 2021 at 4:11 pm (2 months ago)

    Hi Elisa,
    I’m wishing you all the best on your reinvention journey. Much success in the Ultimate Blog Challenge also!

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    • Elisa
      August 2, 2021 at 7:56 pm (2 months ago)

      Thanks, Rachel. Best of luck to you too!

      Reply

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