Friday Thoughts

I had big plans for this month. Working from home gives me so much more flexibility that I could easily squeeze in the time for a blog post every day. Right?

Apparently not. Last week, I was furloughed from my job with the hope of them bringing me back in January of next year. It has taken me a little while to get used to this new reality. From filing for unemployment to coming up with a new daily routine, it is all a bit of a shock to my system. All last week, I went to bed wondering what I did that day. Did I accomplish anything? And old habits are hard to break. I still wake up at the same time and automatically pick up my phone to check my email–only to remember that I am locked out of my accounts, and I have no meetings today.

But, I am thinking positive. I know I’m going to land on my feet and be fine. I have a large network to tap into and people have been generous, kind and willing to help. Right now, I’m technically still employed and my benefits are intact. But, I’ve never been in this situation before. It is bizarre, and naively, I didn’t think it would happen to me.

Happier News

Today is Chloe’s “gotcha” day. We adopted our poodle four years ago, and I can honestly say she has made our family complete. During quarantine, she has been by our side, putting smiles on our faces and up for some short-term snuggling when we are feeling down. I’m so happy we have her in our lives. Happy “Gotcha” Day, Chloe!

Back to School

Our daughter heads back to college in two weeks which leaves me with mixed feelings. I love having her around the house. It’s like she never left. If this was her freshman year, I’d encourage her to go to our local community college to take her gen eds. But, she has had her taste of sweet freedom and there is no putting that genie back in the bottle. To be honest, I’m betting on her being back upstairs in her room taking classes by October. I can’t see how this on-campus life is going to work, but I’m willing to give it a try.

Meanwhile, our son, Andrew, will be a junior in high school. This is a big year for him, and I want him to have the best set up to succeed. For me, that would have meant in-classroom learning. He is much better in that environment than reading off a computer screen. But, the school board recently decided to go all virtual for the first marking period. No fall sports which is a shame, but at least, we are not on complete lockdown. He can see his girlfriend and core group of friends at a social distance, of course. People are upset with this decision. Mostly because we all thought we had options between sending them back in person and online learning, but the school board decided for us and in a way that gave none of us a voice in the process. While that is frustrating, frankly I’m relieved not to have to make this decision myself.

For the record, there is no right answer when it comes to sending our kids back to school. Whatever decision you are making for your kids – keeping them home, sending them back, doing a hybrid – it’s the right decision. You don’t have to explain yourself to anyone. This is hard, and I support you.

Blog Update

Our fearless leader of the Ultimate Blog Challenge recently asked what our plans are for our blogs in the future. My plan is simple – to keep writing. I didn’t get in all 31 blog posts like I wanted to do. Oh well, shit happens And it really hit the fan here this month.

I will keep writing. I hope you keep reading.

Stay healthy and safe everyone. Wear a mask. XO


9 comments on Friday Thoughts

  1. Jeanine Byers
    July 31, 2020 at 1:29 pm (10 months ago)

    I’m so sorry to hear about your job! I hope they can bring you back sooner than they expect. I know what you mean about not having as much time to blog as you expected. Glad you were here for this round and I hope to see you in October.

    • Elisa Heisman
      July 31, 2020 at 10:11 pm (10 months ago)


  2. Julie JordanScott
    July 31, 2020 at 2:17 pm (10 months ago)

    This is such a strange time in our lives – I am so sorry for the furlough. It must have been shocking for you…. and our children’s lives are uncertain, too. I hope to see you back in October. I enjoyed the challenge this month, but like you didn’t post every single day.

    • Elisa Heisman
      July 31, 2020 at 10:10 pm (10 months ago)

      Thanks Julie. I wanted to do your refresh challenge. I will probably still do it – just a bit late. 😉

  3. Martha
    July 31, 2020 at 6:43 pm (10 months ago)

    I’m sorry about your job but love your positive attitude. You entered the challenge, posted some blogs so in my book you are a winner and deserve a big congratulations! Keep on writing in the coming months and you’ll be ready for the October challenge. I’ll be waiting for you!

    • Elisa Heisman
      July 31, 2020 at 10:10 pm (10 months ago)

      Thank you!

  4. Lily Leung
    July 31, 2020 at 9:53 pm (10 months ago)

    Yes, shit does happen and it is strange times. It’s a good waker upper. sorry about your job. Maybe you will find a better one. I’m retired but I only wrote a little over 50% for this challenge.

    • Elisa Heisman
      July 31, 2020 at 10:09 pm (10 months ago)

      Thanks, Lily. The plan is to definitely find a better one!

  5. vidya
    August 3, 2020 at 10:22 pm (9 months ago)

    Elisa, sorry about your furlough… and am sure there is something better ahead.. And my son is a senior this year so I know how your son’s junior year is going to be..
    As for us, it is an uncertain college application process currently


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