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Book Review: Original Sin

Front cover of the book "Original Sin: President Biden's Decline, It's Cover Up and His Disastrous Choice to Run Again"I remember exactly where I was when President Biden announced he would not run for re-election. Ironically, I was about an hour north of the White House, celebrating my sister’s 50th birthday.

We were speechless but far from surprised. We had so many questions. What took him so long to make this decision? Why hadn’t he done it sooner? Like right after that disastrous debate. How nice it would have been to have the opportunity for a presidential primary and select a candidate with enough time to share their vision for our country’s future.

Alas, that did not happen, and we are where we are politically today for reasons that are only coming to light months later.

Regardless, “Original Sin: President Biden’s Decline, Its Cover-up, and His Disastrous Choice to Run Again” is a comprehensive retelling of the decisions made to conceal the truth from the American public. Some of the book’s biggest bombshells included a behind-the-scenes look into his declining health, his refusal to listen to party leadership and inability recognize longtime friends and supporters (like George Clooney), and the inner workings of the White House staff who tried to present and maintain a “nothing to see here” facade.

The cover photo says it all. President Biden and his inner circle closed their eyes to the polls. They covered their ears about health concerns, and prioritized pride over the potential (and very real) damage to the Democratic party and the country if he campaigned and lost.

Nearly everyone who spoke to the authors did so anonymously, fearing retaliation. This general theme has carried over to the current administration, where everyone appears to be afraid to talk freely.

I also feel a great deal of empathy for Biden, a political legend who did so much good during his tenure, dealt with personal tragedies, and yet couldn’t overcome his own stubbornness to pass the torch to the next generation. A decision that will likely be his legacy.

I’ve heard numerous reasons why people didn’t want to read this book. Many are angry with the authors, particularly Jake Tapper, who previously defended President Biden and has been accused of profiting from a story he may have downplayed in his reporting.

(Full disclosure: I believe Jake Tapper to be a responsible and ethical journalist. His coverage during the presidential campaign was a result of what the administration fed him and the rest of the media, which turned out to be lies.)

This book is also a challenging read for anyone who loves someone who can’t comprehend or face their limitations as they age. It’s also difficult for those of us who want to put party leaders on a pedestal and then realize they are only human and have made a lot of mistakes.

But it is an important read.

I gave this book a 5-star review because it was exceptionally well-written and thoroughly investigated. I trust the authors and their reporting of this period in our living history. I highly recommend books and articles that reveal the uncomfortable truths about both sides of the aisle.

Did anyone else read this book? What did you think? Thoughtful comments are welcome.

Elisa

July 2025 Ultimate Blog Challenge #1

Who am I?

I am a blogger who hasn’t written consistently on this blog for quite some time. I think my last post was back in January.

I am a writer who writes every day for work and in a weekly writing community.

I am a returning UBC-er (Ultimate Blog Challenger)coming back after a brief hiatus, because, as my blog title suggests, we are living in times without a manual. Some people have thrown the manual out the window. Others never bothered to look at it in the first place. And yes, I am speaking politically. But I promise that not every post will be of a political nature. I don’t have that kind of energy. 😅

On the days that I feel so moved to speak out, you are welcome to skip those posts. I understand if my views aren’t your cup of tea. And if you would like to comment, please be respectful.

I am a proud Jewish-American who puts my Star of David necklace away in mixed company or if I’m going somewhere unfamiliar. I’ve never had to do that before, and I am jealous of those who don’t have to worry about wearing their faith in public. I have a lot to say about what it’s like being Jewish in 2025.

I am a Gen-Xer firmly planted in the “sandwich” generation. I love to see the humor and irony in this stage of life. There is plenty of both. I’ll share those stories with you as well.

I am a small business owner, a storyteller, an avid reader who loves to write book recommendations, a wife, a mom of two fabulous children, and a dog mom. You will see it all in my writing.

I am happy to be here and look forward to all of your posts.

XO,

Elisa

Spiritual Awakenings and Safety Concerns

“The correct response to antisemitism is Jewish pride,” Brett Stephens, American journalist.

“Be 10% Jew-ier in whatever way you want,” Rabbi Craig Axler said during this year’s Rosh Hashanah service at Temple Isaiah.

The author standing by a canal in Venice, Italy wearing a blue dress, red foldie, and her hamsa necklaceBefore leaving for my vacation in Italy last month, I called my best friends, Craig and Pam, and asked them a question I usually don’t have to ask anyone.

“Is it safe to wear my Jewish star necklace when I travel?”

It was the first time I asked this out loud to anyone. Of course, this isn’t the first time I’ve thought about it. Far from it.

When I go food shopping for the Jewish holidays, there is one local supermarket where I order my Break the Fast trays for Yom Kippur, my latkes on Hanukkah, and the gefilte fish to serve at the Passover Seder; I often wonder if it is safe to go in there. There isn’t a regular police presence outside the store to protect us like at most synagogues. Why would there be? It’s your typical supermarket whose deli counter is quite popular with the Jewish community during the holidays. But where else would we go for the best chopped liver? Side note: I’m told it tastes incredible, but I’ve never touched the stuff.

It’s not just my safety that concerns me. I worry about my family and friends as well, particularly my children. They are coming home this weekend for a post-Rosh Hashanah dinner. Andrew is a student at Drexel University in Philadelphia. When he comes home on weekends, he often takes the train back to his apartment on Monday mornings. But this Monday morning is October 7th—the first anniversary of the brutal attacks by Hamas terrorists on innocent Israelis attending the Nova music festival. A day that resulted in 1200 Jews murdered and over 200 were taken hostage. A hundred of them are still being held in captivity today. This weekend, Andrew wants to go back to his apartment on Sunday night to avoid the Pro-Hamas rallies that are planned this Monday on the streets of Philadelphia. He is concerned about his safety while walking home from the train station. And frankly, so am I.

Jenna currently works for the University of Maryland Hillel in College Park. I’m sure I don’t have to tell you about the anti-Semitic rhetoric and encampments happening on many college campuses all over the country today. This Monday, October 7, the Students’ Justice in Palestine (SJP) chapter is hosting an event on the University’s largest public convening space to mark the largest attack on Jews since the Holocaust. Understandably, the Jewish community is incredibly upset about such a public display of hate, but Maryland Hillel will have educational and awareness events during the day.

October 7 will be a tough day for our community everywhere. But it is also an opportunity to share our Jewish pride, stand with Israel, and build an even more robust, resilient presence. I pray for the safety of everyone at universities and in major cities around the country as we all mark this difficult anniversary. Side note: I’m all for free speech, but never, ever, hate speech. 

Back in Italy, my friends advised me to do what I felt was most comfortable, and I should be fine. I opted to wear my less obvious Hamsa necklace that my daughter bought for me in Jerusalem instead of my Jewish star. I didn’t run into any problems, but I did feel a pang in my heart as I saw others wear their crosses and other religious symbols freely while I had to question my choice of jewelry. This feeling, while overwhelming, was also inspiring.

I agree with the quote above by Bret Stephens that Jewish pride is the correct response to antisemitism. I have never hidden my identity or how proud I am to be Jewish. My love of Israel is steadfast, and being an active member of my local Jewish community brings me great joy. I will never stop worrying about the safety of my family and our community, but I will continue to take the advice of my spiritual leaders and friends and work harder to be 10% Jew-ier this year.

Maybe I’ll write a few more Jewish-themed blogs than I usually do.

Maybe I’ll attend an extra Shabbat service per month

Maybe I’ll even try the chopped liver! (or maybe not 😝)

If not now, when?

XO,

Elisa

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